SK & B CHRONICLES: SOVEREIGN LOVE

Being sovereign is nothing more or less than fully owning all aspects of yourself, your creations and thus your life. A state that will be essential to building and running a successful society on the new earth.
I have chosen to call intimate love based on the same as the 'sovereign love experience.'

My friend B (currently on ship) and I have been exploring aspects of this together in our chats and the various obstacles in our path to achieving this on the earth.
Our history together spans intergalacticly and trans dimensionally and we were together at the beginning of time.



SK & B Chronicles: The Ties That Bind


SK: From your perspective, B, what are some of the ties that bind us, preventing us from feeling and thus being liberated in our personal relationships?

B: Where to begin…that’s a big question, you know. Do u want to narrow it down a bit?

SK: Remember my friendship with G & C until they left earlier this year? How about the advice she used to ask me for - re their marriage?

B: Yes, ok. Like the ‘obligation and duty can kill the life purpose’ sort of advice you gave?

SK: Yes.

B: Well, in your world the duty and obligation that you feel pressured to express is confused with morality and ethics, very often. Those sorts of qualities are bred into you, conditioned in from your personal upbringing and family values, societally, etc. But then as adults – to recognise that they are ‘ties that bind’ rather than the ethical and moral principles you believe them to be – take some sifting and a deeper self awareness. It becomes a process to ALLOW YOURSELF to re-cog-nise that principles, morality and ethics taught by your world and NOT your inner voice/compass – can be more limiting and destructive long term than it is liberating to the HS, to your souls and the experiences they wish for you to have as the highest forms of expression.

SK: In the vast majority of cases, these are often the reasons people stay together in their relationships.

B: Yes they are. Or have been so far. But all that’s about to change when the focus for existence does on your world. And people will know it then in no uncertain terms.

SK: I’m presuming no such limitations exist where you come from and where you’ve personally been in your own relationships?

B: No. We don’t choose to experience this and therefore don’t know of such limitations. But we watch you on earth struggling with yours and long for you to be free of that type of suffering. For us, there is total commitment in the moment to who we are with in our relationships. Whether we’re in a sacred partnership (the equivalent of a committed marriage) or not. And honesty with one another about how we’re feeling every step of the way is prerequisite.

SK: But then I suppose you also don’t have this sense of holding back in personal relationships that many on earth have because they are trying to ‘avoid hurting another’. Which to my mind is really another way of saying ‘I can’t or don’t want to deal with that level of honesty with another because I can’t deal with it in myself’. As you know, I’ve never successfully been able to pull off that approach. I need to have it straight up and have the freedom to deliver it that way too. Which I see as an accelerated means to growing.

B: Well, there are many aspects of you that never got grounded out, to use that expression, into separation from your source self in this incarnation. Some aspects of your multi-dimensional nature were embedded so strongly that you could not forget in your living experience. And so you express this, as one of these.

SK: Some more personal stuff is exchanged further at this point between us...

SK: Let’s chat about understanding the energy at play between yourself and another. For instance, how easily we believe we’re ‘in love’, when we could be infatuated, in ‘lust’ or in what I’m calling contract/agreement with another, including a karmic arrangement. And how easily confused we become trying to pigeon hole what it is we’re feeling, but not really knowing.

B: And add to that the necessity of knowing yourself, as a means of gaining more clarity on what it is you’re feeling and sharing with another. Yes, it can all be very confusing...the love and romantic attractions you have for one another.
Not helped by your world’s media providing very narrow definitions about what love is and isn’t between two people. So, you really have very little to go on in understanding what’s at play. And then most people’s inner compasses are pretty dead or obliterated, so they don’t pay attention there, either. All in all, it’s a case of the blind leading the blind for the most part.

SK: How can we remedy this on the new earth. For we must if we are to go forward as healthier individuals choosing more appropriate partners. How does it work that side?

B: Well, of course we have none of the obstructions in our path and vision. And we are always and first in touch with ourselves and our inner guidance as to who is ‘right’ for us. And whether there are things to share at that deeper, intimate level. Because we have a 100% connection 100% of the time with ourselves first, there really isn’t much discernment to be made or done. We just know what is or isn’t right for us.

To be continued...