Sa-Ra 18: Self-Abasement

Through Shellee-Kim


17 January 2014



Dear friends and family of Earth!It is a pleasure to once more have the opportunity to share with you in this way.
Things are chugging along very well and you should see some 'surprising' things manifesting soon.

Shortly will there also be much that will ease your paths and open for your full expression, both personally and publicly.
When all this starts you will be well prepared - for any and all eventualities. And this need not be a source of fear or nervous anticipation at this time. Not for any of you that have chosen Service to this most magnificent of Christ Michael's unfolding Plans. And this also includes those not consciously in-the-know of Christ Michael.

I have meant for a while to address the issue of Self-abasement with you. And this issue is but a symptom of a larger issue - that issue being Self-worth.

Self-abasement ( to humiliate or belittle oneself) is to think so little in and of oneself that one becomes or remains unconscious of the self humiliation we put ourselves through. Or that meted out to us by our loved ones which we accept without thinking twice.

At this juncture, beloveds, there is no time and no energy to be further wasted on defending of (particularly to yourself) or apologising for the attitudes, behaviours and responses of others. And most particularly those closest to you.

Truthfully, those not in strength enough within of who they are - and even those that are many a time - dealing with such is extremely self-defeatist. And is nothing short of self-abasement.

Now we are not telling you here to run a mile from your families, friends and loved ones. But we are saying most clearly that the time of being 'peace keeper' from your perspective is done. There is nothing further you need do or say to uphold 'harmony'. Nor is it your responsibility to do so.

What is required of you far more at this time is to keep yourself in a state of self-preservation for the coming moments when ALL OF YOU will be required to be PRESENT.
Dealing with an issue such as self-abasement therefore is imperative now. As allowing such is in direct conflict with this objective. Understanding what within you has allowed such belittling and humiliation of self to take hold where you have accepted it as a part of you is now priority.

Women, in particular, struggle immensely with self-abasement. As humiliation is often something that they are on the receiving end of - from their men. And from the still mainly patriarchal societies in which you live. Sometimes this belittling and humiliation (which some call emotional/psychological abuse) is most overt, at others it's very subtle. But either way this is the sub text that adds to a gender that already is and feels collectively victimised.

Yes, life between the sexes is still most definitely unequal. And the guilt that many women are made to feel about merely existing and being a woman with womanly feelings is consistenly used against them. Perpetuating feelings of being 'lesser than' which continues the self-abasement.

It is extremely difficult to see a situation when your face is right up against it. It is suggested that in order to have some type of clarity in this department it is necessary that you do something to remove yourself from the situation/sameness of it, if only temporarily. Take a day or two away from the home, if you can.

Or if you cannot, have an emotional/psychological time out from interacting with your partner for a while. Perhaps one where you focus your energy on something/someone else for a short time. Sometimes it may even be a friend or stranger that could help to trigger insights into your situation that you might use as a starting point to explore all this. Anything that works for you that could provide the necessary 'distance' to SEE yourself more objectively. And do explain to your partner why it is you're doing this.

Self-abasement starts first from within, like everything else. But is exacerbated by such memes as misogyny. Which have in turn produced the collective and individual sense of victimhood in women in this successful programming of suppression of the feminine force on your earth.

Having said this, self-abasement is NOT the domain of women alone. Men fall prey to it just as easily. But due to the memes set up between the genders and to keep them at war with one another within and without, men project this also back to women. It has been encouraged that they do so for millenia on your plane and this is how the continued perceived 'lack of responsibility' within men continues.

Is is up to you, dear women in particular, now to heal yourselves of this deeply ingrained malady that affects all.
You will successfully say : NO MORE! When you stand fully in your OWN power. And NOT in the shadow of another. Women are no longer to be the second-class citizen of this world. And for you to know absolute freedom means for you first to know that which holds you back from yourselves that you may remedy it.

You have no obligation to any other, and particularly those you love, to be less than who you are. This is dis-eased thinking and feeling.

Expect those around you to NOT take kindly to the changes you make within.
So be it, Beloveds. THIS is what is required of you here at this time. And nothing shall stand in your Paths. Regardless of those you may lose en route.

I leave this with you now to give your attention to as you continue to examine yourSelves in relation to your loved ones.

I AM loving you all, most deeply

As always

This is your Sa-Ra

Until the next

Signing off for now.