Hi folks!
Our first priority in being here is to learn and grow. And based on that we can create new and different possibilities for our life. Or not.
That being the case, there is no such thing as destiny. Though there are certain fixed experiences/meetings with specific people we may choose in advance of coming here.
When people speak of 'it was my destiny' it's as if something is ordained to be. I don't think that's true if we are choosing to ordain or not ordain it. Some say 'my destiny picked me'. But wasn't it all just each individual's choice to pick or be picked...? Or did HS/God just 'take' the person?
A certain end point may already have been decided upon. But all the rest is just choice and then consequences of those choices, as I see it. At any or all levels of our our being and whether or not we're aware of them.
A certain end point may already have been decided upon. But all the rest is just choice and then consequences of those choices, as I see it. At any or all levels of our our being and whether or not we're aware of them.
How we get to that end point is our own affair. God's not going to rescue us from the free will He's given us to choose. That's the long and short of it, I suppose.
The awareness by 'onion layer' shedding and revealing process is generally a slow and painful one. And what affects one, affects all. [Read Lisa's most recent blog, Cathars In France, revealing our collective history and it's impact on us in the now. A definitive part of the onion layer shedding that's only just been discovered]
https://energeticsynthesis.com/index.php/resource-tools/blog-timeline-shift/3433-cathars-in-france
And I guess the more times you've been here on Earth, the greater the amnesia of your real Self. As if the many lives/experiences serve to separate you further, instead of bringing you closer to knowing your true Self.
https://energeticsynthesis.com/index.php/resource-tools/blog-timeline-shift/3433-cathars-in-france
And I guess the more times you've been here on Earth, the greater the amnesia of your real Self. As if the many lives/experiences serve to separate you further, instead of bringing you closer to knowing your true Self.
When seeking stops and knowing begins. Now that's the start of a whole new existence. THAT'S the paradigm shift.
Anyway, I love this approach of Lisa's in the piece below apropos a workable method of increasing awareness of ourselves, our motivations and our feeling body, etc. You may find something useful in it, too.
All good things to all of you
SK
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Body Awareness
https://energeticsynthesis.com/index.php/resource-tools/blog-timeline-shift/3432-body-awareness

Real Embodiment only happens when the
higher consciousness bodies are able to come into the physical realm,
which means to fully align, embody and seat within the physical body
itself. Currently, the structural changes as a result of the bifurcation
within the past, present and future planetary realms, impacts all human
beings towards greater embodiment levels of their soul, monadic and
higher spiritual layers.
Embodiment is about becoming more
conscious and aware about our body and mind, and how they really
function together in direct partnership with our consciousness access
level. As we ascend, we are becoming more self-aware in a first-person
experience that is recognizing more of what is actually happening within
our body and mind, at the same time we are traveling within a group
consciousness experience. Through dedicated self-observation we can pay
attention to many different layers of consciousness patterns, reactions
and stimulus that are occurring simultaneously and extend throughout the
physical, mental, emotional or spiritual bodies. The earlier stages of
authentic embodiment levels are dependent on developing self-awareness,
as the more deeply we know ourselves, and we know our body and how its
functions, the deeper we can go into the spiritual embodiment stages. If
we do not observe our deepest motivations, self-talk and pay attention
to our bodily reactions, we cannot truly know ourselves and this
generates inner disconnection that blocks the integrative embodiment
process.
Embodiment begins to happen within the
consciousness layers as one becomes more self-aware of what the body is
doing during a variety of different contexts that we encounter in life.
These are the situations, experiences, relationships, our memories and
history, the social and cultural lenses that we filter through our
personality to make sense of the world. Through all of these layers of
context that we are exposed, we have many memories and beliefs recorded
in our physical body and nervous system from the experiences that come
with those sensations and feelings, that are all interconnected.
Thus Embodiment goes hand in hand with
dedicated self-awareness and by making the commitment to be in the
observer consciousness, to watch and listen to our body and mind by
paying attention to exactly what it is doing and feeling in the moment
to moment. We learn that the mind’s contents and beliefs will reflect in
our unconscious or automatic reactions to any external stimulus, and
thus we observe these reactions, because we want to know ourselves more
deeply in order to be free of unconscious blockages that thwart
embodiment.
The first stage of authentic embodiment
begins with moments of saturating concentrated focus upon the present
moment awareness of the body’s sensations, whereby recognizing the
body’s language, feelings and reactions are the sum reflection of the
buried contents of the mind. Automatic reactions in our body can notify
us of deeper context and belief that are carried within some area of the
mind and this content takes shape within the form of the body’s
posture, gestures or movements in some way. Most people are disconnected
from the unified relationship that exists between their body and the
layers of their mind, and so cultivating deeper awareness of the body’s
sensations and movements, while noting complex deeper feelings that
arise is important in developing self-awareness, as well as progressing
into the stages of the higher embodiment process.
When we cultivate body awareness in this
way, it allows us to make positive growth changes in ourselves, because
from observation, we have become aware of what we needed to change to
become healthier or more balanced. It is nearly impossible to make
positive changes in our lives when we are not aware of the changes we
need to make, because we are unconscious of the areas that need
improvement. If a person has little body awareness, combined with little
self-awareness of the consequences of their thoughts and actions, they
generally remain unconscious to what they need to do in order to free
themselves from pain or to better help themselves.
Consequently, developing self-awareness
in the present moment by paying attention to the body is the key to
making positive changes within ourselves that can ripple positive
impacts, that greatly improve the quality of our lives. As we have more
present moment body awareness we start to experience the physical body
we inhabit, knowing that it is the vehicle for our mind, consciousness
and spirit to express through in order to travel through time.
Everything we experience has greater purpose for lessons and gaining
knowledge about the inner spirit traveling in the material world. As we
start to experience this inner knowing as a reality in our day to day
life, we become more embodied, connecting with higher aspects that find
expression through us that expand our consciousness. We are continually
growing by learning more about ourselves and embracing change in the
process of being more deeply authentic.
- Embodiment means to feel how it feels to be in your body and to be conscious of those feelings, paying attention to recurring patterns that may be disempowering and limiting. Only when we can see these patterns and how they influence us, we can change them.
- Dedicate to explore improved body awareness through observation of sensations, feelings and experiences that are happening in your body moment to moment. Pay attention to impressions that you feel in bodily movements and reactions, where does your body hold stress and constrict? Where in your body do you feel more relaxed and open? What can you do to more deeply connect with your bodily awareness?
- Slow down and find ways to move your body that feels positive and joyful, such as dancing, swimming, deep breathing, connecting with nature and allowing something harmless to feel pleasurable and be enjoyable.
- Practice and explore what it means to be embodied by being authentic and true to your experience in any context that you may find yourself. Your experiences are valid and important in the authentic embodiment process. When we deny feelings and experiences we’ve had, we deny the truth, which blocks embodiment.
- Make the commitment to become fully embodied by being as authentic and truthful as you can be in all circumstances. As you grow and change, your version of authentic expression will also continue to grow and change. Accept change as necessary for continual authentic embodiment.
- Disregard labels of acceptable or nonacceptable themes that describe terms that are spiritual, conscious or awakened, in the positive or negative. Instead focus fully on really what you are feeling in the moment and finding the most authentic and compassionate expression for it.
- Pay attention to your reactions in your body as they reveal places where you still may be hiding something from yourself and others because you are afraid. Be willing to face what it is that you may be hiding and attempt to describe it so you can learn to overcome the fear that feeds it.
- When people in our life such as friends or family members are relating to us in past images or inauthentic ways, gently invite them to know the real you, share something that is your authentic self and then ask them to be real with you. In the embodiment process, we want to relate with others who also value authenticity and support this path along with us.
- Participate in body awareness centered activities. Research therapies and educational material online that may be highly supportive now. Find areas that interest you, such as body work, fascial and tissue release, somatic therapy, methods that focus on embodying presently through grounding, breathing, posture, perceptual awareness, hydrotherapy, neutral mind and meditation.
When we allow ourselves to be totally
honest with how we are feeling in our body, we can be present to the
embodiment process and then we can start to observe those places that
need our love and attention, so they can heal and recover. The body
informs us when something is not healthy and that something in our body
or life needs to change in order to rebalance and heal. Thus we need to
learn to love and connect into our body while listening to the body’s
messages, tuning into what the body needs to keep us balanced, healthy
and embodied.
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